我该如何经营我的爱情？"How do i manage my love?"

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我该如何经营我的爱情？"How do i manage my love?"

◎只要您跳脱「星辰命」的相处模式，从对方的角度思考，并利用互动、饮食、风水等方法来帮助您经营爱情，相信您们的爱情一定会越来越幸福，越来越融洽。◎

1【在相处方面】根据命理分析，您属于「星辰命」，因此您的爱情观难免带有星辰的特质，星辰在星空中若隐若现，您对于爱情也是如此，您可能不容易直接表露情意，也不容易立刻说出真心话，因此对方可能会觉得您有点暧昧，也可能不容易了解您到底怎么想。此外，星光虽然灿烂，往往不易持久，因此您在爱情刚开始时可能比较浪漫，但是随着时间越久，就越容易缺乏维系感情的动力。另外，星光闪烁不定，因此您也不容易定下心来，有时难免会有其它的对象吸引了您的目光，因此对方可能也比较不容易放心。如果您能够跳脱「星辰命」的相处模式，站在对方的角度来经营爱情，相信对于您们的爱情会更有帮助，而您们一定也会越来越幸福，越来越融洽。

2【在互动方面】当您们两人坐下来的时候，您最好不要坐在他的对面，最好要坐在他的右边（他本身的右边）。当您们两人在走路的时候，您最好也要走在他的右边（他本身的右边），这样您们的感情会越来越融洽，也越来越不容易发生争执。当您们两人手牵手的时候，您最好让他的右掌心来牵您的左掌背，因为掌心属阴，掌背属阳，这种牵手的方法最容易来电，可以让双方的气场结合在一起，也最能够维系感情。

3 在饮食方面：食物本身具有不同的能量，一般情侣在热恋时，吃东西往往是你一口我一口，去外面用餐也喜欢点一样的餐点，这段时间因为吃的东西都很类似，因此心灵最契合。等恋情稳定后，俩人去外面用餐就开始会各自点喜欢的餐点。而当恋情更平淡后，俩人一起用餐的机会就越来越少，甚至是各吃各的。由此可知，如果您想要让您们的感情更甜蜜，请您尽量多吃一点对方喜欢吃的饮食（一定要健康的饮食才可以），这样您们双方的默契就会越来越好，感情也会越来越甜蜜。

4 在风水方面：请将您卧房床铺「左侧」（也就是您在床上仰睡时的左侧）的杂物收拾好，并清理干净，在这块空间，除了您们的合照、情侣装、情侣对戒、情侣对表、爱情纪念品、定情物、粉晶球等爱情相关物品之外，最好不要有其它的杂物，也不要有凌乱的感觉，更不要有不相关的人物照片，或其它人像、神像、艺术雕刻品、画作、玩偶、公仔、娃娃、镜子，以及盆栽等。这样您们的爱情应该就会越来越稳固，也不会受到不好的干扰了。

"How do I manage my love?" Translation by Happyfate

◎ As long as you get along and think from your partner’s point of view, have good interactions with him, maintain correct diet and feng shui, your love will be filled with happiness and harmonious . ◎

1 [Get along] According to Analysis, you do not directly reveal your affection, nor directly speak your feeling easily, thus the other may feel that you are a bit ambiguous and it may not be easy to understand exactly how you think. Your love may be more romantic in the beginning, but as the time passes, it may be hard to maintain. Also you are not easily settled down, sometimes it is inevitable you will be distracted by others, as such the other side may be less assured.

2 [Interactions] When both of you are sitting together, it is best not to sit directly opposite him, it is best to sit on his right side. When you are both walking together, you may want to walk on his right side. In this way, the relationship will be more harmonious and less prone to disputes. When you are both hand in hand, you may want to let his right palm to hold your left palm, because the outside of the palms are “yin”, while the inside is “yang”. In this way, the opposite (yin & yang) attracts, and this means more able to maintain good feelings.

3 [Diet] Suggest you can order the same meals when both are dining outside. If you want to let your feelings become even better with each other, you try to eat more of what the other usually likes to eat. Try it.

4 [Feng Shui]: Please clear all unnecessary items on the left side of your bed, keep it clean and tidy. If there is space on the left, you may place photos of both together or couple in love related items on the table, love souvenirs, tokens, rose quartz ball etc. It is best not to have other debris that will create a messy feeling, also not to have pictures of other people, or other people portraits, statues, art sculptures, paintings, dolls, mirrors, and potted plants. In this way, your love relationship would be more solid and there would be no bad interference.

"I want to know about my year luck & more on love life..."

"Hi HappyFate, my details: x/x/x, x hour, Male. I want to know about my year luck and more on my love life in particular...”

2013癸巳流年: Very Good

翰墨生芳香: 笔墨或文辞发挥专长，且流芳吉运。 鷗鶩棲浦口: 双人在水口，美食丰富，运途顺畅吉利。

2013 luck is very good. Your love relationship is good and you will enjoy the time being together with your partner. Your career luck is also good, not to worry…..

Email service@happyfate.com and get your free analysis for 2013.

Client chooses 2-years Bazi luck with months analysis

Bazi fate in general (本命命格):

青山依傍竹:  保守依赖性，渴望安定，依靠也。Conservative, looking for stability & support.

蒹葭晚夜宵:  心情飘忽不定，俟到夜晚，方能平穩踏实。Emotional at times, usually feeling more secure and stable especially in the evening.

2013癸巳流年:

青山依傍竹: 保守依赖性，渴望安定，依靠也。更殘望明月: 欠缺助力，雖有抱负，仍无希望，防夫妻。幸有贵人相助。Your 2013 luck cycle is ok. You will tend to be conservative, rely on others and looking for stability. Support from others at works may be lacking even though you are self-motivated. If you are in a love relationship, suggest to be compromising and better manage it. Fortunately, mentor is around to help you along the way.

1-4月:  啼恨时來临:  忽恨芋事到來，该來的总该会來，何须烦恼。Take things easy, not to worry too much of the unforeseeable results, whatever will be will happen.

4-8月:  大浪乘舟帆:   进行工作中，仍有波折，是非等事临身。Hiccups and gossips are expected during this period, be prepared to overcome them.

8-10月:  啼恨时來临:  忽恨芋事到來，该來的总该会來，何须烦恼。Take things easy, not to worry too much of the unforeseeable results, whatever will be will happen.

10-12月: 掘地逢金銀:   辛勤工作获得财富，用心点则更多。Your hard work and determination will bring your rewards. If you have been careful and attentive, the result will be even better.

2014甲午流年:

分开界中角: 分出彼此，如合夥成拆夥，一分为二之意。莺鏡新生磨: 亲友、夫妻间易起磨擦，每次状况不一样。Your 2014 luck cycle is average. There is sign of separation, whether in work, partnership or relationship. Communication with relatives, friends and partner may not be good. There seems to be arguments over things and each time it is of different situation.

1-4月:  更殘望明月:   夫妻情感摩擦，事业上欠缺某部份助力。Communication issues with partner. At work, support from other department may be lacking.

4-8月:  皎月更深靜:   工作做到很晚，才能休息，故牵扯到三更半夜。You may need to work late into the night in order to complete your task and have a good rest.

8-10月:  星光照嫣红:   运势平顺，对事物充满美丽的憧景。Progress is still acceptable, you tend to look forward to the good things you have in mind.

10-12月:  吹云望明月:   障礙容易克服，方能顺畅、成功。If you can overcome obstacles fast, you will progress steadily and succeed in your tasks.

(Note: After reading the meaning of the sentences, you may apply them to the main area of concern you have in each phase. If the sentence hints of average luck, then the specific concern you have in your mind will have average result. You may want to hold that decision, be less agressive and adopt a win-win approach...

 

...extracts from client bazi analysis report.

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2012壬辰流年: (Average)
江边蘆葦花: 穩定中仍心性不定，恐遭外界受影响。
Your 2012 luck cycle is average. You tend to be emotionally unstable even though the situation seems to be ok. You are likely to be easily influence by others.

2013癸巳流年: (Good)...

騏驥盜取來: 欲得到美好事物，且不不择手段想拥有。
Your 2013 luck is good. You want to have the best things in life. But you main tend to use whatever means to achieve your targets. Fortunately, there will be mentor (贵人) to help you.

Regarding your question on career: Base on your bazi chart, your day master is weak Earth, thus your favorable elements are Fire (印) & Earth (比). From your option, you may consider 1st Teacher & 2nd.....